Selamat Ulang Tahun, Mah...

Mah,

Nta ga minta sehat...karena hanya dirimulah yang bisa mempertahankan kesehatanmu sendiri...

Nta ga minta panjang Umur...karena Allah telah menggariskan umurmu ketika sebelum kau lahir...

Nta ga minta rejeki...karena Allah telah mengatur sebaiknya-baiknya dan seadil-adilnya rejeki untukmu...


Cuma satu, Semoga Semua Doa dan Air Mata di Setiap Solat malam dan fajarmu dikabulkan oleh Allah,,,Amin!Amin!Amin....

Selamat Ulang Tahun, Mah....

LOOK AROUND YOU

Do you think that you are the center of the universe?




Don't tell God how big your problems are, but tell your Problems how big God is!!!


Against Sun, Earth is like a dot.  Pluto is so small it can't be seen here. Think about it!!  Where do you find yourself now?? Now imagine the creator of this universe???

“Think It Over...”

Today we have higher buildings and wider highways, but shorter temperaments and narrower points of view
We spend more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses, but smaller families
We have more compromises, but less time
We have more knowledge, but less judgement
We have more medicines, but less health.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values
We talk much, we love only a little, and we hate too much.

We reached the Moon and came back, but we find troublesome to cross our own street and meet our neighbors.
We have conquered the outer space, but not our inner space.

We have higher income, but less morals....
These are times with more liberty, but less joy....
With much more food, but less nutrition....

These are days in which two salaries get home, but divorces increase.
These are times of finer houses, but more broken homes.

That’s why I propose that as from today;

You do not keep anything for a special occasion, because every day that you live is a special occasion.

Search for knowledge, read more, sit on your front porch and admire the view without paying attention to the needs.

Pass more time with your family, eat your favorite food, visit the place you love.

Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment; it isn’t only survival.

Use your crystal goblets. Do not save your best perfume, and use it every time you feel you want it.

Take out from you vocabulary phrases like “One of these days” and “someday”.
Let’s write that letter we thought of writing “One of these days”.
Let’s tell our families and friends how much we love them
That’s why, do not delay anything adding laughter and joy to your life.



Every day, hour, and minute are special....

And you don’t know if it will be your last...
If you’re too busy to take some minutes to send this message to someone you love, and you tell yourself you will send it “some of these days”, just think that “some of these days” can be very far, or even that you will not be there to see it....

My Mom Only Had One Eye

My mom only had one eye
I hate her… she was such an ambarassement



She cooked for student and teachers to support the family
There was this one day during elementary school when my mom came to say hello to me
I was so embarassement
How could she do this to me?!
I ignored her, threw her a hateful look and run out
The next day at school my classmats said, “ eeee,,,your mom only has one eye”
I wanted to bury myself
I also wanted my mom to just disappear
So I confronted her that day and said, “ if you’re only gonna make me laughing stock, why don’t you just die??!!”
My mom did not responed!!!!
I didn’t even stoped to think for a second about what I had said, because I was full of anger.
I was oblivious of her feelings
I wanted out of that house
So I studied real hard, got achange to go to Singapore to study
Then I got married.
I bought my house of my own
I have kids of my own
I was happy in my life
Then one day,my mother came to visit to me,. She hadn’t seen me in years and she didn’t even yet meet her granchildrens!
When she stood by the door,my sister laughed at her.
I sreamed at her, “ how dare you come to my house and scare my children!”
GET OUT OF HERE!!NOW!!!
And to this, my mom quietly answer, “ oh iam so sorry, I have gotten the wrong address,” and she disappear of out sight.
One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house
So I lie to my wife that I was going on a business trip..
After the reunion, I went to the old shack just out of curiosity!!
My neighbors said that she died.
I did not shed a single tears!
They handed me a letter that she had wanted me to have…



“ my dearest son, I think of you all the time…”
I am sorry that I came to Singapore and scare your children..
I was so glad when I heard you are coming for the reunion
But I am not be able to even get out of bed to see you.
I am sorry that I was a constant embarassement to you when you are growing up.
You see,,,when you are very little, you got into an accident and lost your eye.
As a mother, I couldn’t stand watching you having to grow up with on eye.
So, I give you mine..
I was so proud of my son who was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place with my eye.
With my love….
Your mother

The Prophet Sall-Allahu Alayhi Wassallam told us that we must obey Allah and his messenger at all time but after that comes your mother then your mother then your mother then your father.

Sekarang!

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Jawabannya sama " sekarang"

How to prepare for a presentation

As an active member of an organization, you may have to present the organization in meetings by giving a presentation. Giving a presentation is not very easy. You may not have the experience if talking in front of an audience. Presentations are extremely important in creating an image of your idea. Even if you have an excellent idea, its acceptance depends on how effectively it is present. If you deliver and ineffective presentations, the changes of achieving your goals are limited. The following tips may heplp you avoid this situation.
Preparing for a presentations

Analysis
- Who is your audience?
- How many people are there?
- Is the occasion formal or informal?
- How much time do you have?
- What kind of response do you want?
- What do you hope to communicate ti this group?

The presentation
- select your main ideas and develop them.
- Arrange those ideas so that they develop into a logical conclusion
- Support each ideas with facts and explanations.
- Plan your content to fit the time allowed.
- Remember to summarize main ideas in the conclusion
- Prepare any props you need (e.g. whiteboard and markers, overhead projector)

The delivery
your appearance
- Dress comfortably but professionally.
- Keep your back staright, maintain goog posture.
- Use hand gestures only when stressing your point
- Be enthusiastic
- Pay attention to your body language
- Maintain eye contact with the audience

Your voice
- don’t speak too fast
- prounounce your words clearly
- project your voice so that the people in yhe back can hear you.
- Try not to use too many pauses or hesitations.

Some expressions to use in giving s presentations

Welcoming :
- good morning ladies and gentlemen
- welcome to…
- it’s very nice to see you all today.

Introducing the subject:
- I’m going to talk about…
- The title of today’s presentation is…
- This talk is…

Reffering forward :
- I’ll say mare about that in a moment.
- I’ll come back to that later on.

Reffering back :
- as I said/ mention earlier/ before…
- going back to what I said earlier…

moving on :
- that brings me to my next point
- let’s move on to the question of

reffering to visuals:
- as you can see from this diagram/graph/table…
- these figures show…
- if we look at this chart…

Giving examples:
- for instance…
- for example…
- Let me give you and example…

Inviting Question:
- Any question so far?
- Does everyone follow that?
- Is that clear?
- Does anyone know what…is?
- Are you familiar with…?

Finishing off:
- well, that was a brief overview of the subject.
- Well, I hape that has given you some idea of..
- Thank you very much for your attention

Tips On Good Grooming

Good grooming is and everyday must. Grooming is the way you care for your body. No one likes to look at—or live with – someone who looks like a person having just crawled out of bed. That’s way it’s important to take special care of the following features :

a. Hair, no matter what syle, should always be clean and well cut.
b. Especially for men, faces shoul be clean shaven, beards and mustaches neatly clipped.
c. Fingernails should be cut and clean. Ragged and bitten nails are ugly. All nails should be of equal length.

Almost as important as the grooming of your boy is the grooming of your clothes. Dressing is a personal style sometimes influence by trends in fashion expose in books and magazine. It’s your decision whether you want to keep up with the latest trends and wear fashionable clothes or remain traditional
Whatever you decide, there are some basics to remember.
a. the kind of clothes you wear must be appropriate with the occasion. Although most of your wardrobe probably cinsists of clothes for the office, or school, it might be useful to add some item for casual wear or evening attire.
b. Make sure you have a color scheme which suits your skin color and a collection of styles that flatters your build.
c. Be sure that shirts, blouse, pants, jacket, and other kinds of clothing have all their buttons, hooks, zippers, and other accessories in place.

Good Posture – the way you stand or sit – also indicates to the outside world how you feel about yourself and the things that you do. If you walk with your shoulders hunched, head lower, eyes cast to the floor, this attitude conveys—either correctly or not—that you are shy, not very out going, and that you do not have much self-confidence. On the other hand, if you sit up straight, with your shoulders back, chest out, eyes forward, others will get the impression that you are confident, possess a good image of yourself and have lost of self-respect.

The way you care for yourself, the way you dress, and the way you carry yourself create a certain impression on people you socialize with.